Posted by: tgonzales | October 12, 2012

My Joshua Turns 21 Tomorrow and a Little Crochet

How can this be true? How could 21 years just slip by so fast? But it has and I didn’t know how much our lives would change after my Little Chacho Aaron was born. John, my daughter and I mention this to each other quite often. At first I didn’t know what I would do with him and then after he was here I didn’t know what I would do without him. On that note I thought I would share some then and now pictures with all of you:

Then, he laughed at himself in the mirror and made me laugh.

Now he still makes me laugh.

Then I loved to sit with him and smell his hair and kiss him on his head.

Now if I could only reach his hair and head I would do the same thing. ;)

Then, Jennifer and him were buddies.

Now they still are.

Then, his cousin Emilee was his first friend other than his two other cousins Ben and Maria whom he grew up with; so they were more like brothers and sister to him.

Now Emilee and Joshua still care for each other, although they don’t see each other as often as they did when they were young.

Then, his cousin Keegan who was born 8 months after him always played so well together and made a Thanksgiving tradition of spending the night at our house and went shopping on Black Friday.

Now, they will always be cousins and are still the best of friends although their traditions have changed.

Then, he could always make me laugh and cry at the same time.

Now, he still does. I think that some of you know that I pour my heart and soul into some of my posts and this is one of them. I don’t know if any of you know how many tissues I go through when I write some of my posts; but be assured that I went through LOTS on this one. I miss the days when Joshua was just a little boy and I miss the days of him growing older. The way I get through the days of missing him, is by remembering that he is happiest where he is now. Isn’t that what every Mother wants for their children, is for them to be happy? Now on this Friday, October 12th I want to wish my little Chacho Aaron a very Happy 21st Birthday tomorrow and hope that he’s as happy as he’s made me.

Anyway…… on to the crochet part of my post. Here’s John in his new/old hat being silly of course.

I finished up the order for one of my co-workers who ordered the KU hat by making this cute pair of Little Prince Loafers. I love how they turned out and so did she.

I made a hat for another co-worker that commissioned me to make a black and white hat with a pink flower on it. She loved it and so did I.

One of the hair stylist who works in the salon where I get my hair done ordered a second pair of cowboy boots for her baby boy, Roman. I love how the boots turned out and so did she. The pattern I used for the cowboy boots and loafers come from The Lovely Crow. I think I’ve mentioned this before but I love all of her patterns and have never found a mistake in any of them. I’m looking forward to the weekend and hope that I can get more crocheting done and maybe even get the crochet pieces that I didn’t sell put away properly. So how about you, do you have any plans? I would love to hear all about them.

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  1. Happy birthday to Joshua, and mazel tov to his wonderful parents. What a beautiful post :-)

    • Hi Jill!

      Thanks so much for stopping to comment and my Joshua reads the blog so he will be very touched by all his birthday wishes. Thanks again for being here.

      Love and Hugs,
      Tamara

    • Man, Tamara,
      That was a beautiful Then and Now………..you did it!………….what else can I say!

      • Yes John I do think I said it all. I love you and thanks for reading the blog.

  2. I just love your blog!! I needed tissues to read it this time because my heart is right there with yours. My Tim and I were that close and I sure missed him when he went 1700 miles away to school at 19 years old. Loved the crochet baby boots and shoes and of course the hat. You must have a class on your hat flower someday, okay?
    See ya,
    Kaye

    • Hello Kaye!

      Sorry to start your day off with a good cry; but if I’m going to cry I want everyone to cry. :0 (Not really) Thanks so much for liking my blog posts and for stopping to tell me so. Oh by the way I am teaching my hat flower class on Tuesday, October 30th from 6pm-7pm at Twist. I would love to have you in my class.

      Love you,
      Tamara

  3. Happy birthday to Joshua. I know it’s hard to celebrate birthdays when he is so far away-just stay busy. Love the little man shoes, they are so precious. And I love the stocking hats and it helps to have a clown (John) to model them. lol He is so humorous. I’ve been getting ready for a little trip. Made some cookies and crack for the road and gotta get the suitcase packed today and the house tidied up a bit and the laundry was finished up yesterday. have a good week cuz and don’t forget I love you. sw

    • Hi Sue,

      Thanks for stopping by to comment and I always love hearing about your plans. I hope your travels take you somewhere interesting and fun?

      Love you too!
      Tamara

  4. He’s a cutie for sure, just like his mom !!!

    • AWWW Thanks Pam for thinking so and for stopping by to say so.

      Love and Hugs,
      Tamara

  5. HAPPY 21st BIRTHDAY, JOSHUA!! You make your momma PROUD!!

    Tamara! I just love all these “memory photos”. So fun seeing you (& Joshua!) as youngsters. tee-hee! The further I had read, I got to thinking of you looking thru your old photos, deciding which ones to put on your blog *and* what to say about each. How fun & sad at the same time. There ya were, crying thru it all. hmmm… I think I shall buy some stock in Kleenex. :-D

    As for John, what can I say? He brings your/our world to life. LOL!

    Good to have ya back more often than once a week … altho I admit my mind got used to it and, therefore, had a little ‘surprise’ when I saw a post from you today. Crazy, huh?

    Lotsa Luff ~
    Kat

  6. Happy Birthday wishes to Joshua.. Loved seeing all the photos!
    Darling crocheted booties – fun colors!

    • Hi Stephanie!

      Thanks so much for the birthday wishes and for stopping by to read my blog.

      Love and Hugs!!!
      Tamara

  7. Hi Kat!

    You and I should really buy stock in Kleenex, as many as I went through for this post. :) You make me laugh!

    Yes, John is a barrel of laughs and I need that most of the time. And thank you for noticing that I was back to blogging 3 times a week, this week.

    Love you!
    Tamara

    • Tamara … So ya cried …
      and then ya laughed.
      What a day.
      Variety is the spice of life.
      (and we all know John loves things SPICY) :-D
      xoxo ~ Kat

  8. Happy Birthday Joshua! wonderful post Tamara xxxxx

    • Thanks Maryanne!

      Hugs,
      Tamara

  9. So much to comment………….we were way more than just buddies, he was my practice child. I think I was a better mom to him than some of the teens that had babies the same time he was born. I remember bumping into each other in the middle of the night to make sure he was still breathing in those first few mths and it was always a race to see who was going to get to him first when he woke up. I remember his tear and snot-streaked face standing at the door when I had to go to my dads for the weekend, I cried all the way to my dads sometimes. I remember making him laugh for the first time, laugh so hard that his little throat shook, and you were listening in the baby monitor downstairs. I remember picking him up from pre-k and him hanging out with me at my apt til you got off work. I remember living in lawrence and how he learned my number was on speed dial and would rack up the phone bill, that was when he was in kindergarden! Lol! I remember field trips, helping in his classrooms, parent teacher confrences. I remember sitting down with a teacher that wasn’t being so nice and getting things straightened out. I remember picking him up from middle school and he would hang out with megan and I til you got off work and all the times he stayed the night with me when I was pregnant and Megans dad was at work. And he was in charge of putting my hair in a ponytail everyday after my shower at the hospital for those 2 long weeks. I remember reading “The Great Gatsby” with him in highschool to help him get through it. I hope I was as good of a sister as you were a mom to him. We have a very special bond that no one will probably ever comprehend, and I am ok with that. I love you both so much!

    • Jennifer,

      Yep! That made me cry too. Thanks for making my nose plug up just before going to bed. I love you too and Joshua couldn’t have had a better sister than you.

      Mommy


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